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10.11.17 Rock Update

10/12/2017

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Lots to cover this morning so let's get to it!

Last night.....and last week!

Last week we began a new series entitled "FLIP MY HOUSE."   This series will lead us to looking at our spiritual houses.  Our spiritual houses, just like our physical houses, need constant attention.  When little things are left alone they tend to get worse.  

Our phrase of the year is this....Because Jesus is greater the greater life is possible.  We spent all of September understanding why Jesus is greater.  He is the foundation of our house.....He makes our house a home for His glory.  But then this greater life is not just something that comes about.  This greater life is not meant to sound like we'll have a mansion of a life with little to no problems.  We must re-program what this greater life looks like....that's coming down the pike.  For now, through this new series, we hope to help students understand that the greater life takes constant work.   We constantly evaluate where we stand, the shape of our house and offer daily attention to that which matters most.

I've attached the last two weeks of sermons for you.  Hope they allow you to follow along with us and see what we're teaching the students.  I also hope these will challenge you to take a look at your house, room by room.
The Kitchen
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The Closet
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Coming Soon...

Below are some things we are working on that will be here before you know it.    Also in the list are some thoughts we have of get togethers but simply need some help working out.
  • October 25th - WHATEVER WEDNESDAY.  This is a theme night where we asking students to dress up in whatever they want.  Of course we mean outfits that are school legal.  This is just a simple fun thing to do but we will also use these outfits to help students focus on who they really are....underneath the masks and outfits we put on daily.  But a fun night and way to end our current series.
  • October 31st - Hallelujah Night - A great night of fun but also a great night to serve. Remind your students they need to serve for a period of the night at their Sunday School booth.  It's easy for those 12-17 yr olds to "lose track of time" on the hayride sometimes.  PLUG IN!
  • November Series - Follow - There's one name that rises above the rest, JESUS.
  • November 15th - RockFeast - A Thanksgiving dinner like no other.  Be watching for ways for you to get involved.  We can't feed 125 without your help.
  • November 26th - The Turkey Bowl - We'll pick teams and have a flag football tournament following the AM service.  More info coming....
  • December 13th - Tacky Christmas Party - We'll spend the night having some good traditional Christmas fun. Dress in that tacky Christmas sweater or outfit.  We go all out for the school themes....let's bring that same intensity to The Rock!
  • REFUEL - We are currently planning and working out details for our Refuel trips.  Last year we had two separate trips, Middle School and High School.  Our thoughts are to do this again this year.  The Middle School trip will take place during Christmas break (Dec. 18-20 or Dec. 20-22) and then the High School trip will take place during MLK Weekend.  Prices vary but be looking for deposit dates coming up soon.

One event we would love to have is a bonfire night.  We are early in the stages and are having trouble with a location.  Does anyone have a good, close location to have a bonfire.  Keep in mind we could have 15 students or 80 students show up, you really never know.  So we need a location that could entertain the maximum and not run off any neighbors with the noise and silliness of the teenagerisms that will unfold.

Embrace...

We all know the struggles of teenage life.  The awkwardness, drama, relationship struggles and fights with pride seem to never end.  Unfortunately a student ministry is not immune to these things.  While it's true the church should be the last place this is found unfortunately it shows up here just as much, if not more.  How do we work against this?  Jesus, give them Jesus.  Show them how Scripture calls us to live and then help them in this way.  It's really all you can do unless we just place some major restrictions on them.  But even then their heart will be unchanged.  So in an effort to remind our students of the need to EMBRACE one another in Christ I've listed some things that I'd love for you to be reminding your student about.   All in an effort to ensure everyone who steps into the doors of The Rock is noticed, spoken to, treated with respect, and ultimately finds a place of belonging.   My heart is that each person who comes hears the truth of God's Word.  But that battle is hard when they see the opposite in the place grace is meant to dwell the most.​

REMIND THEM THAT:
  • We are to treat others with respect, how we desire to be treated.
  • Relationships are a two way street.
  • We are to love as God has loved us.
  • A simple hello is not an offer of marriage or bff status. 
  • Their actions here have the tendency to mistakenly represent our church in that same way.
  • Esteem others better than yourself.
  • Look up more, look down less.
  • Teenagers seem to dream for the acceptance of others, adults too!  This sometimes brings about the problem of us longing for the friendship of certain people while neglecting to recognize there are others longing for your friendship.  This constant merry go 'round leads to hurt feelings, feeling as though you don't belong or even the pushing away of certain people.  We tend to shoot for the stars and seek to be around people who we aspire to be like. This is not always a good thing.   What is the outcome of the friendships we are seeking?  Is this the outcome we need?
  • Shy, loud, mature, immature, skinny, round, bald, athletic, nerdy, band(y), All-American, all nothing really, black, white, brown, or maybe just somewhere in between.  Our ministry, church and world is made up of different people.  This perspective will help us in a huge way.  The beauty is we can befriend others and allow that to take us out of our comfort zone or place we fit.  Just because people aren't like you doesn't mean they are lesser than you. This problem is not just in the past and definitely not void from churches.

This list can go on but I think we need to constantly help our students in how we embrace people.  Both here and outside the church walls.  My worst fear is that someone comes to the church and leaves without ever feeling loved, accepted and befriended.  It's especially hard when I meet a shy student.  The worst part of my job is helping that person find a home here.  The best part is when I notice a group of students embrace that shy person and accept them in....much like God, through Christ, once did to us through His unconditional love and acceptance. Even in the midst of our sin and chaos.  He brings peace.

I wished my love for that student was enough to keep them here but their heart is crying for the acceptance of their peers.  Right or wrong students will often prefer the church or ministry their friends attend.  This makes sense right?  We can't make kids be friends with one another.  I can't change who they connect with.  I can't ultimately control how a student is accepted or make connections work.  But we can lead them to see the importance of how we relate to one another, especially as followers of Christ.  But this is a part of growing up, learning.  And this process often stings, stinks and passes.

One day these students will understand the importance of our church home being decided because of Biblical content rather than relational structures.  As an adult I understand that Biblical content is first and then once there the relationships begin to form, over time.  As an adult I could attend a church that was solid in doctrine and Biblical teaching and allow that to be the reason I am there.  But I understand that is not the case for all, especially teenagers dealing with identity crisis, puberty, drama and the stuch. But in this we pray, help, lead and model to our students how we are to embrace others and seek Christ in the midst of life.  This is the hope of our ministry after all.....lead students to know Christ and make Him known.  To know and follow Jesus.  

I don't remember my teenage life being this hard...but I'm also a hermit!
Love you all and pray for you daily as we attempt to parent teenagers in 2017!
Come Quickly Lord Jesus!
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